Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a
ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Becker. The dog's owners,
Ron, his wife, Lisa, and their little boy, Shane, were all very
attached to Becker . I examined Becker and found he was dying
of cancer. I told the family we couldn't do anything for Becker
and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog
in their home. As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me
they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe
the procedure. They felt as though
Shane
might learn
something from the experience.
The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Becker's
family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog
for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was
going on. Within a few minutes, Becker slipped peacefully
away. The little boy seemed to accept Becker's transition
without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while
after Becker's death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that
animal lives
are shorter than
human lives. Shane, who had been listening
quietly, piped up,
"I
know why."
Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next
stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation.
He said, "People
are born so that they can learn how to live a good life -- like
loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?" The
six-year-old continued, "Well, dogs already know how to do that,
so they don't have to stay as long."
Live simply.
Love generously.
Care deeply.
Speak kindly.
Remember, if a dog
was the teacher you would learn things like:
When loved ones
come home, always run to greet them.
Never pass up the
opportunity to go for a joyride.
Allow the
experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure
ecstasy.
Take naps.
Stretch before
rising.
Run, romp, and play
daily.
Thrive on attention
and let people touch you.
Avoid biting when a
simple growl will do.
On warm days, stop
to lie on your back on the grass.
On hot days, drink
lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
When you're happy,
dance around and wag your entire body.
Delight in the
simple joy of a long walk.
Eat with gusto and
enthusiasm. Stop when you have had enough.
Be loyal. Never
pretend to be something you're not.
If what you want
lies buried, dig until you find it.
When someone is
having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them
gently.
Be always grateful
for each new day.
ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF EVERY DAY!
